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"Parents located in north London wants to find an extraordinary and skilled instructor to guide their most junior child on his early path to growing into an English gentleman."

Upon seeing this post, you might readily overlook the wording "initial stages" as mere figurative language.

Yet, it might be the most important element of this unusual job advert, as it aims to recruit a teacher for a 12-month-old.

Numerous of responses have now been sent in since the anonymous family posted their request for the highly paid tutor, who must be "an exceptional individual".

Over the last few weeks, the advert has gained attention in the press, with numerous asking why?

Innovative Idea

The CEO, head and founder of Tutors International, which is helping the family in their hunt, said that despite initial doubt, he considered the idea "forward-looking", and "advanced".

When he met the family, he noted they appreciated the unconventional aspect of their requirement, and how immature their son is.

Nevertheless, they stated that they "preferred not to postpone any longer" to get a tutor, as they had postponed until their older child was five, and by that stage "cultural conditioning had already taken hold".

What precisely does the family indicate by "cultural leaning"?

It's "everything", he answered. "How you eat, the way you speak".

He stated the firstborn had adopted "extremely delicate, unspoken signals" from the family, and had assumed their cultural ways. The family informed the consultant they hoped to prevent this pattern to happen again with their new baby.

The intention: To bring in a UK tutor, who must speak with standard English accent, to influence the baby from day one.

Subtle Influence

"Much of the education at the beginning here is somewhat acquired indirectly," explained Adam.

It's by means of this natural absorption that the family are hoping the child will acquire the English characteristics they want to instil.

The consultant explained the tutor must be an individual who went to "prestigious academies – similar types of schools as the family aspire to send their son to".

"The instructor just has to be the appropriate candidate, they'll be doing things they aren't even aware they're doing, simply by nature," he said.

Cost Not Relevant

The family told him the successful candidate should preferably also have familiarity of or interest in horse riding, alpine skiing, creative fields and musical activities so as to influence the child in a broad spectrum of interests.

Additionally though, he explained the family hoped the tutor to enrol the child on a range of lessons so the child would be "pony-riding and starting an instrument by the time they are approximately three years old".

In the family's view, guiding their son grow into a "English gentleman" will bring about success and provide access.

"For all the rights and wrongs of that, because it's certainly a class statement," he adds.

Yet, notwithstanding all this guidance in "Britishness", might the child absorb what is termed cultural leaning from the international family he is raised by anyway?

"Absolutely", said he. "They know this could fail, but they've merely embraced the perspective of, 'let's give it a go and let's go as early as we can', because the expense of it is irrelevant," he explained.

Impractical

Several in the education sector who share these reservations.

Peter Cui, CEO and founder of an educational organization, who also offer individual instructors, stated that "the process of adopting dual cultures, or in fact, discovering oneself, is something that must be experienced personally, not engineered."

Peter explained that he had emigrated from the Far East to the United Kingdom at the time of seven, and had been raised understanding and embodying dual heritages. He went on to study at the University of Cambridge.

"The idea that an individual can act as a living vessel of English culture, a person who can in some way transfer the characteristics of a UK sophisticate onto a 12-month-old child, seems to me optimistic and unfeasible," he commented.

"In my experience, engaging a distinctly English tutor from infancy will does not instantly produce the goal they want.

"I did not have that kind of mentor, and yet I have been fortunate enough to experience numerous of the opportunities they hope for their son."

He added: "The truth is, self-identity can not be forced from the external environment; it must be chosen, and it must come from within."

Acquiring Englishness

Certainly, English culture is something Adam thinks can be instructed – and sold.

"In my view the situation that the international society holds us in this light is something that we should be cherishing|valuing|appreciating